Chapter 16 - THE VISITATION HEARING
Derek argued:
He had complied with supervised visits.
No new threats.
No direct contact with other children.
Completed a parenting course voluntarily.
Began therapy.
Had stable housing.
No substance abuse.
Presumption should favor parent-child relationship.
All relevant.
Natalie argued:
He still minimized.
Still called the videos “content misunderstandings.”
Still blamed Marina in messages.
Still faced serious charges involving Owen.
The guardian ad litem reported:
Owen wanted to see Derek.
Also feared being filmed.
Wanted visits without phones.
That was important.
The judge did not choose:
Father forever gone
or
full normal custody.
She expanded supervised in-person visits.
Longer duration.
No recording devices.
No case discussion.
No content creation involving Owen.
No posting his image.
No unsupervised visits yet.
Review in three months.
Good.
Derek looked angry.
Then accepted.
Behavior afterward improved.
He stopped sending Natalie accusatory messages.
Attended visits.
Played cards.
Helped Owen with homework.
No camera.
Owen came home lighter.
That complicated my feelings.
I wanted Derek punished.
I also wanted Owen to have whatever safe father he could.
Those goals could coexist if courts did their jobs.
Then Derek sent me an apology through counsel.
Not direct.
I did not have to read it.
I did.
Marina,
I did not intend to break Sadie’s hand.
Bad opening.
Not enough.
I was trying to get a reaction for a video. I convinced myself the pressure would be brief and harmless.
There.
Then:
I mocked you because I knew making you angry was part of the content.
Then:
I did not think of Sadie as a person in that moment. I thought of what would happen on camera.
That was the first sentence that felt true.
Then:
I do not expect forgiveness.
Good.
I forwarded it to prosecutors as required? If sent through counsel maybe settlement communication could be protected. Let's not complicate. It came as approved family communication, not plea negotiation. Counsel preserved.
I did not reply.
Sadie did not read it.
Too young.
The trial still proceeded.
Apology is not evidentiary eraser.
Then one more reversal.
The prosecution dropped one count involving the locked bedroom.
Why?
State law and evidence did not support criminal restraint strongly enough for a forty-eight-second parenting incident without additional force.
Still ugly.
Not every wrong is criminal.
Derek’s case became smaller.
Stronger.
Assault.
Child endangerment.
Evidence tampering.
Specific fraud/privacy charges.
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The trial would not be about proving he was the worst man on earth.
Only proving what the law actually covered.
